The military structure will teach your child many things, regardless of which branch or specifics. The basic training has value no matter what.
But, that’s not what I want to tell you. What I want to tell you is that this decision is way too big for you to let your child decide on their own.
Basic training is given to all military personnel. But, what I’m talking about is the job, or MOS they choose.
This is one of the most important decisions of their life. It will impact virtually everything when they get out of the military.
This is the opportunity to prepare them for a future job and life they love. Or to lock them into a state of constant failure and searching for whatever job they can find that makes them money to live.
First, the military will give them a test, which will help determine which jobs your child qualifies for. Once, you have this test finished. Use the results to find the best job for your child.
Do not leave this up to your child or the recruiter. The recruiter is going to steer your child into a job that fills the military quota.
Your child will grab onto the coolest job that spells the most adventure, and the recruiter will push it, if it fills a quota.
Airborne Ranger sounds cool, but there’s not a lot of jobs for that exact skill set after the military is over. Perhaps a job as a Military Contractor, Police Officer, Security Guard, or Smoke Jumper… Maybe. But, more likely fast food worker, janitor, factory worker, or truck driver are in the cards. Because nobody needs an Airborne Ranger when there isn’t a war going on.
Your child’s stubbornness, desire to be cool and the recruiters ability to persuade can be quite powerful.
You will need to get someone your child will listen to, if they won’t listen to you. A friend of yours. An uncle or pastor. Someone who can give a voice of reason.
Now, I don’t want to dump on infantry soldiers or anything. I will bet, that if you ask a lot of them, they will tell you the same thing. They should have picked a different job. That goes for any military job that does not translate into civilian life.
The fact is that here are no jobs in civilian life for many of the military jobs. So, unless your child has a solid plan to stay in the military. (Which they have no control over. The military will use you for 19 years and then put you out just before you get retirement and there’s nothing you can say or do about it) or a job that involves weapons. They need to go into something else.
If a child wants to be a cop, they should go and be Military Police. That’s a good choice. If they like to tinker with things, then go be a diesel mechanic in the military. If they want to drive, then go be a truck driver or heavy equipment operator in the military.
There are tons of jobs in the military. We are not under a draft during a war. So, you are free to direct your child to choose a job that works for THEM.
Choose one of the trades. Electrician or Construction or Demolition. Go into computers and tech stuff. Do something that would cost a fortune to learn in civilian life, like engineering, or lawyer. Do journalism, or office work. Go into diesel mechanics, or helicopter mechanic, or be a pilot.
The military has all kinds of jobs your child could qualify for. Jobs that will translate into civilian life.
Help them make a wise choice, that will serve them their whole life.
Believe me. There are lots of ex-soldiers who grow up wishing they had made a different choice. Regretting that they didn’t have anyone who could steer them into a better choice when they were young.
It’s important.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
He is faithful God is faithful, by whom ye were called unto the fellowship of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord.—1 Cor. 1:9 How is trust built? With anyone, whether it’s parents or friends or enemies or government or neighbors, trust is built or destroyed by relationship, and experience. It is the same with God.…
It will happen in these last days “Let no man deceive you by any means: for that day (The Day of The Lord) shall not come, except there come a falling away first, and that man of sin be revealed, the son of perdition;”— 2 Thess. 2:3 (2 Thess 2:1-15) It seems that this event…
Have You Tested God? “Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.”—Luke 6: 38 First, I wanna say that this verse and all…
I see it written online, and I hear it out of the mouths of those around me.
I really do not agree, and I’m going to tell you why.
First, I think it’s the height of hypocrisy for retired people to say “No one wants to work any more.” Because, that’s who I hear saying it 80% of the time.
You literally quit working to do what you enjoy, while blaming others for wanting to do the same.
The difference is that they don’t want to give their life to an employer earning pennies on the dollar, just to maybe someday have a chance to love their life.
They wanna live today.
It’s insane that we support a system that keeps us poor, sick, and beat down, while others get rich on our blood, sweat and tears.
We stupidly wander through life following a carrot called retirement, while pulling a cart full of richmen and their families.
“Nobody wants to work anymore.”
No. No one wants to do the things YOU think they should be doing. No one wants to run and cater to your needs. The slaves are leaving the plantation you rely on. And you don’t like it.
No one wants to get paid chicken feed to do work for you, while you sit on a mountain of cash. No one wants to give hours of their life away, while someone else raises their kids.
And if you say “If you can’t afford kids, you shouldn’t have them.”
Well someone has to birth and raise more slaves for the grinder. Because you certainly won’t let YOUR kids do it. Or maybe you would, because that’s the sort of person you are. Work builds character…right?
It’s insane that we continue to support a system that keeps people in poverty, slaving away their whole life. While others are born into the lap of luxury.
I used to think it’s freedom. The freedom to earn and get wealthy. I still believe it. But, somewhere along the way it became harder and harder to succeed and escape the system.
There is no American Dream.
It’s a carrot to keep you working. Because if everybody was rich who would do the work?
If everybody learned to be free and earn a living, who would be the slaves?
So, they teach us to be good employees for their businesses. Putting us in government schools we pay for with taxes stolen from our measly paychecks.
They abuse us at our jobs because we are just a number. They can find another worker, they think.
If you ask, “Who are ‘They’?” Then, you must be one of them.
They create and get the laws passed that control us and keep us down. They use their megacorporations to impose rules on millions, they could never get passed in reality.
If they turned their sights, money and power onto helping humanity instead of controlling it. They might get better workers.
People see the uselessness of the system, and why would they want to work any more?
Why have 2 or 3 jobs just to live up to your standards?
People want to work. And work hard on things they love.
Trying to please you isn’t one of them.
Maybe instead of saying, “Nobody wants to work any more”. We should say “Nobody wants to treat workers right any more”
Course, they never did, and we just continue to allow it.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
He rewards those who seek him. And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. 10 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. 11 If a son shall…
So, we know the seasons. The Bible is 30% prophecy, as some have stated. But, when you consider that the whole thing is about Jesus Christ, and that all the stories and pictures speak of Him, His First Coming and Second Coming, I think its more like 100%. God has called all believers to be…
God works to build the Kingdom through us. James 2:14-26 In this passage. The apostle James, speaks of works being an aspect of our faith. It ends with the famous phrase “For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.” In the verses James shows that God commanded…
I am one, and perhaps you are too. We might not be ugly, but we are ugly to the perfect, pretty people. Our past is ugly. Our life is ugly. Our homes, our cars, and our kids are ugly. They are not good enough for the pretty people. We never will be.
The pretty people work to keep us down. We are the weird guy who walks around town. We are the girl who never fit in. We are the silent one, they all ignore. They have their teams, and their cliques. They have their clubs, and private places we will never fit.
We serve their tables, and clean their floors. We cook their food, and watch over them when they are sick. We are in their prisons, and die in their wars. We mow their grass, and deliver their goods. They tip us. We smile and lick their boots, and love their charity.
We never cared in school. We didn’t fit in. They were everywhere, and always on top. They walk in daddy’s footsteps, and drive his car. Their name will replace his, on the city council, and the beauty will continue. The ugly continues too.
We are ugly, so we drink too much. We smoke too much. We are too addicted, and we don’t care enough. We don’t care about the things they tell us matters. We jump 20 feet up, and we are still only halfway to the bottom rung of that ladder they climb. We have sex too much, and make too many kids they hate. Kids who are treated the same way in school, by their kids.
Even when we reach the top; we are never one of them. We are never one of the perfect people. We cannot hide our work ravaged face, and our stress lines. We cannot hide our work hands. Why would we want to?
The ugly people are my people and me. We fight, and sing. We struggle, and pray. We scrape and get by. We are mean, but we love. We don’t really want to fit in. That was burned out of us when we were children, and you made sure we knew we would never belong. But, we have honor. We have our people. And we are proudly ugly. Too ugly for you.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
Why does God let us struggle? When we get saved, we might notice that there are things that change in us immediately. But, there are other things that do not. It’s like God saves us and removes some things but leaves other things in our lives for us to struggle with. I mean if God…
We are corrupt at the very core. What I am going to present to you today is something different. A different way to look at the world, and humanity. Something different than the legalism around us. As Christians we are taught and have come to understand a view of God, Scripture and the World based…
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“I am the door; by me if any man, enter in he shall be saved, and shall go in and out and find pasture. The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” —John 10:9-10
I was studying this recently when it was revealed to me that there’s a deeper meaning for it in my own life. My past was pretty bad. I did all kinds of terrible things to those I love, and to those around me, and to myself.
But, during all of that, I felt that I was living a normal life, and was trying to build something out of it. I worked and tried to save. I made plans. I chased the almighty Dollar, like everyone around me. The most important thing was to earn, earn, earn. That’s what everyone cares about. Did you take care of your stuff? Bills paid? Getting to work on time? Looking for more money?
Nobody really cares if you’re a drunk, or addict so long as you keep taking care of business. But, when you start acting out, or failing in what society thinks you should be doing, everyone wants to stick their nose in your business. Once you are not a good slave anymore, you become a problem. But, all the while I thought I was fine.
However, when life started to fall apart, there was nowhere else to turn but to God. And that’s a good thing, because He is the only one that can help. Others can put on a band aid, but only God can really heal.
Jesus said “Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it; and whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it” (Luke 17:33) When your life is garbage, and it’s falling apart, that is God calling you. You tried things your way, and now God is begging you to give Him a try before it’s too late. Get rid of that old life. Hate that old life and all that goes with it. If you keep clinging to that old life, and those old ways, it will drag you down. Turn to Him, and let Him work on you. He can’t do any worse than you have done. Just pray and ask God to save you. Pray that you want to make Jesus your Lord, and that He is the only Lord. Ask Him to help you and teach you. Ask Him to make you a new person and grow you.
And that is what God does when you give yourself to Him. He starts to work, and things will start to change. It’s not immediate. Some things happen very quickly, but other things do not. That is patience being built in us. Spiritual healing, like natural healing is a growth process. It is not like man-made healing, where you pop a pill and feel better. But, it is REAL healing.
When I look back at my life I now have an abundant life. Am I always happy? No. But, God has provided for my needs beyond anything I had before. He has moved in mighty ways to make me worth something. And most importantly He has shown me that He is real, and that He rewards those who seek Him. He, Himself is abundance. Having Him in your life creates abundance.
You have to understand that I am not talking about great wealth. I do not have much, but He has made what I have plenty. He has made me content. Of course, this doesn’t mean I do not want to succeed more. But, I’m fine. He has me. Every time I have had need He has moved, and settled the issue in some way.
You are not giving up anything when you turn to Him. You are gaining everything. The junk you lose is hurting you and others. He will cleanse you and re-mold you, and give you a purpose, and you will be with Him. This is life, and this is abundance.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
It’s hard sometimes This time of year, around Christmas is a very hard time of year for many people. It is not a joyful festive time, no matter how much we try to dress it up with religious zeal, and bright lights. This is the time of year we often miss those who have gone…
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Once again I’m scrolling through news feeds and come across people murdered or committing suicide because of the nightmare that is our family court system.
Anyone who has gone through the system knows it has flaws. But, for a great number of us it is utterly corrupt and broken.
I’m talking about divorce, child custody and child support.
Children and parents along with extended families are damaged because of these proceedings and they can be corrected.
First, when people get married they are required to have a marriage license. They should also be required to have a pre-nuptial agreement that spells out details of how things will proceed in a divorce with children and support.
Both parties are happy and in love and will make better choices during this time, than when they are bitter and full of hate later on.
These court proceedings are too adversarial. From the point divorce is decided and lawyers get involved, the common tactic is to destroy each other.
That needs to stop.
All divorces, custody and support issues should start out at 50/50 custody, no support.
Then, it can be adjusted from that point if there is actual PROVEN need. Not just claims. The burden of proof should be higher than civil, in these cases. Just because a person sits in court and cries does not mean the other parent is a monster who will harm the children.
Currently, the default setting is that the father pays child support and the mother gets custody. The father gets every other weekend to visit. The father is treated like a criminal despite lack of proof. He is viewed as unnecessary for the development of the children and is only needed for a pay check.
It’s common sense that a child needs both parents. So, why do courts seem to always lean in one direction?
Because of money.
First, the states are given money from the federal government for child support orders issued. Like most things from the government it is made extremely confusing so that you need a lawyer to understand it. But, basically when a court issues a child support order the federal government gives the states a certain amount of money to pay them back for the efforts to enforce the order. It is not equal. It is like 2 dollars for every dollar. So, the states make money on this.
And you thought the government cared about the best interests of the child?
Nope. The bigger the order the more money the states get. That’s why fathers are only given 4 days a month regardless of how good or bad the father is.
This should infuriate you. That our children are basically being sold.
You would think that smart people would see this and make changes. But again…
Lawyers make money off divorce, custody and support. So, why change it?
Now, let me clarify. I am going to write about some things below. What I am going to write about are the experiences of millions of people. Yes, millions. Divorce is at a 50% or more rate in our country.
I am going to speak on a large amount of cases. So, please do not write me and say “But, my husband and my case was different…we had a good divorce.” The word “Divorce” destroys everything good you might say. It implies destruction. Also, do not say…”But..but…my baby daddy was the worst. He drank and drugged and whored… he hit me and was a bad dude. He had no job and he’s a dead beat.” I get it. But, he was probably a drunken dead beat when you met him, and yet you decided to have kids with him. You only got mad, when you caught him cheating with your best friend.
Let’s be real.
People suck.
But, we can make things better.
I believe that starting all cases at 50/50 custody no support will help.
Currently the way it goes is that a woman or man will get a restraining order claiming things that might or might not be true. We don’t know because these orders require little proof and carry tons of weight that follow a person around for life.
So, now the father (or mother) cannot go home. He cannot contact the wife or kids.
If a father has money he can get a hotel room. But the order is for a month or more. That’s a lot of money. Maybe he can stay with a friend or family. But often no one wants to get involved because they don’t want to hurt the other persons feelings or be threatened with never seeing the kids again.
They might tell the father’s mother. “If you help him you’ll never see the kids again.” or its implied.
If the father tries to go to a shelter, he can’t because of the restraining order. Not only that but his right to bear arms has been destroyed without any proof.
And this is just the beginning of the nightmare of family law.
So, while this is going on the father learns that his accounts have been drained. So, the money he hoped to use for the hotel are gone. It’s quite possible that any other accounts he might have are frozen.
Are we having fun yet?
But, wait…the family law system has not even begun to destroy you and your family yet.
Because now the soon to be ex-wife calls the cops and claims you violated the order…no proof needed.
Welcome to jail. At least you don’t need to spend money on a hotel room.
But remember your possessions are still at the hotel, or are they? Did the police allow you the opportunity to go into your home and pack a bag for the road? Probably a very small bag while your being cussed at the whole time.
Or maybe your stuff is in a tent at the local camp ground where you’ve tried to live while still keeping a job.
Anyway, it’s all gone now.
We have not even gotten to court yet.
If you have money, or can get your mommy to loan you the money, you might be able to get a lawyer who will tell you that there is absolutely nothing he can do. Course, that’s after you pay him.
Now remember, you must HIRE an attorney. But she can easily find free attorneys. Whole entire non-profits geared toward helping her ruin your day.
So, you go to court for the restraining order, and they extend it. Because remember you “Violated” it.
Honestly I could go on and on and on. But, the point here is that people get driven to do terrible things by this time.
A restraining order only works for law abiding citizens who should not be treated that way.
Next we deal with custody and support.
Let’s be honest, the mother is getting the custody unless she is proven to be an ax murderer. But even then, there is room for lots of visitation.
Fathers have to watch terrible mothers raising kids and can do nothing.
Not all cases are like this…. There, I said it….. Now back to reality.
You should look up how many kids are killed by mommy’s new boyfriend. Then, compare that to how many kids are killed by daddy’s new girlfriend.
Here’s the reality, a man will not be able to have custody of his kids and forced to pay child support. While at the same time marrying another woman, and raising HER kids, while getting child support from another father. While watching HIM raise his kids.
Read that again. How much sense does that make?
How much sense does it make for doctors, soldiers, police officers, businessmen and other decent citizens who protect our society, to be deemed unable to have custody of their own kids?
Let’s continue.
You better keep that tent, you had to buy after you got kicked out of the house, because that’s all you’ll be able to afford once they establish the child support order.
Then, they get your employer to play bad cop and take the money out of every check. This leaves you zero reasons to show up every day. Course, they will guilt you into thinking it’s for the kids, but is it really? And if you quit your job or can’t pay or won’t pay they will rack that money up on your back till at a certain point they will take your drivers license, passport and lock you in jail.
Oh no… we are still not done with the nightmare.
Because every dime you don’t or can’t pay (Because the government doesn’t see a difference.) Is piled on your head and in some states it gains interest. Yes. And oddly enough it gains more interest than any bank would every pay YOU on your investments or savings…how odd is that?
And you will pay. It doesn’t matter if you die. They will come to hell and get the devil to garnish your burning keester.
Think I’m kidding?
They will use your social security number to find where you are working.
And if you think you’ll just earn cash. Think again. The court will just imagine an amount and stick it on you and force to pay that. Even if it’s only 10 dollars a month.
You will pay. You will collect aluminum cans and give all that money to the court.
And heaven forbid that one of your ex-wives friends, or some guy trying to get with her sees you working off books… They will snitch.
And you will pay. Yes, Daddio…you will pay.
And if you try to go to court and correct it, you will be told that it is impossible; because federal laws prevent it. You will be given a ridiculous analogy that compares child support to a bullet leaving a gun…it can’t be called back. Actually the analogy of a bullet going through your head is pretty apt.
When you look at this and consider the long term ramifications, it destroys families for decades. Sure, you might get a few dollars to help a mother pay bills. But, any long term wealth for families is gone. Consider millions of families who are paying money to other people instead of building wealth that can help them in the future.
Consider the destruction of relationships between children and their fathers. How many kids grew up without dads because this system drove them away or made it impossible to function? How many grandparents have lost grand kids because the family courts allow it? How many fathers are called deadbeats because they refuse to submit to an evil system?
So let’s go back to court.
Judge: “Well, Mr. Deadbeat I cannot give you custody of your children because you live in a tent. I cannot even really give you visitation unless it’s supervised. Also, I’m hesitant to do that until you get some anger management classes, because your wife has claimed you are a hot head, and your violation of the order proves that.”
Mr. Deadbeat: “But, your honor none of that is true. I’m in a tent because I lost everything and I’m trying to work to pay the child support. I don’t get mad like she claims.”
Judge: “I’m sorry. I know this can be an emotional time. I suggest taking the classes, we offer them for $100 dollars a session. I also suggest you get a second or possibly 3 or 4th job to pay your obligation and get with your attorney to discuss visitation with her attorney. Good luck to you.”
Mr. Deadbeat: But, I can’t afford an attorney.
Crickets…
This is just a small example of the nightmare of the family courts. This sort of nonsense can go on for years and take all kinds of forms. I wrote from a father’s perspective but it can be a mother going through it. No one is immune unless you have money. But, even then it’s a nightmare. We see public cases of famous people dealing with huge amounts of money and custody battles.
It needs to stop. It needs to change.
We all see what goes on and the destruction it causes and we act like it cannot be fixed. It can.
We see murders and suicides. We see mothers running off with kids to avoid custody battles. We see Amber alerts where a father grabs his kids to take them to Disney World. The news is full of murder, because a person knew the nightmare of the family court and decided to not go there.
How much death, pain and misery must happen to kids and parents before we fix the problem?
If we took the adversarial aspect out of these cases it could be a good start. If we set the standard at 50/50 custody no support, it can be a beginning.
At least the family court won’t be used as a payday or for revenge.
Kids love both parents. No matter how bad they are. And none of them are perfect.
The best interests of the child is the standard, but that is determined by the courts in an insane manner. Is it really in the best interests of the child to be given to a parent who cannot provide for them and forced to never see the other parent? Is that needed in every case?
It seems to be the standard today.
How many murders and suicides must happen?
It needs to change.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
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Trouble comes into our lives and we panic. We rush out and do something. This often leads us to do the wrong thing, which brings more trouble. That’s the bait of Satan.
Satan is described as a roaring lion, or a birder trapping birds in a snare. Snares work by reaction. An animal sees the bait and reacts and gets caught. Likewise, a lion has a scary roar. It will often roar and when an animal freaks out to run, the lion pounces. ( 1 Peter 5:8, Psalm 91:3)
But, if we wait. We can avoid these things.
Wait upon the Lord, and He will lift you up. (Isa 40:31)
Bad things come into our life and we pray. We beg God. And we see nothing happening. It’s hard. But, we trust Him. We trust He is working. But it’s hard. We get mad. We get tired. We break down. But we hold on.
The devil puts ideas into our head of things we can do, but it’s not good things. We can attack, we can run. We can get revenge. We can be resentful. We can be snarky. We can sabotage. We can drop a dime.
But, if we wait and trust in the Lord, we might see miracles. We might see Him move and then we will KNOW, He is real and a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
It’s hard.
Daniel prayed and heard nothing. He waited and waited. Till an angel appeared and told him that God heard his prayer the minute he first started praying. God released the answer the second Daniel prayed. But, demonic forces slowed the answer. ( Daniel 10)
God hears. He has moved.
He promises that “Whatsoever you ask in my name I will do” (John 14:14)
Believe it. Trust it. It’s hard, but what have you got to lose?
God is our only real hope. He is our friend and our father. he is not out to get us.
But, the enemy gets us to fear and doubt and run away from God. That’s when he has us.
This life is but a breath. A moment in eternity. It’s hard. But it won’t last.
Things we think are important today, will matter nothing to us 10,000 years from now.
Wait upon the Lord. Pray, watch and wait. You will see Him move.
You will wake up and see that things are different.
It might not be what we want, but we will see it’s better. We will see Him in it and that will make it better.
Praise Him for all He’s done. Sing His praises.
Bio:Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
He is there and will answer. We live our lives in this world, where we seem to have no control. Where we look every where for answers. Everything seems hard and we have sorrow, working our selves to death. We seek answers from gods, idols and wisemen. We seek answers from deep within ourselves. We…
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It is a demon. Cast it out. Jesus said, “Fear Not” (Matt. 10:31) He said it many times. Actually, it’s a theme throughout scripture. Fear at its most basic level, is a lack of trust in God and His promises. That is a harsh saying, especially when we are dealing with anxiety. Because, often times…
As addicts, we have experienced many of the same things in our lives. We have slept in similar ditches, woken up in the wrong beds, got caught up with the wrong people, and done a million things we cannot remember, no matter how hard we try.
But, one of the things that many of us have tried to do is to quit. We have tried to change our lives. We have tried to please loved ones and put the bottle down for a while. We’ve thrown the pipe away, just to keep the one we love. We have gone to rehab, and we have gone again, instead of going to jail. We have even really tried.
And likewise, many of us have failed over and over again. I cannot tell you the number of promises I’ve made, and the number of times I have quit, and was 100% sincere in my efforts. I fought hard to keep it straight.
But, that thing happens. You know what I mean. One of those buttons gets pushed, which works to draw you back in. It could be an old friend who pops up at the wrong time. It could be a bad day at work. It could be a happy holiday. It could be any number of things. But, you are struggling to resist and maybe giving in.
Jesus said “When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walks through dry places, seeking rest, and finds none. Then he says, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he finds it empty, swept, and garnished. Then goes he, and takes with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.” —Matt 12:43-45
When we get clean or free from a wicked or twisted spirit or demon, and we give in and let it come back, we become worse than we were before. We quit drinking or using and if we pick it up again, we suck it down like candy, and we run after it, like mad. We might even branch out and try other things, in new places. We dive off the deep end. Not only that, but a happy drunk, might become an angry drunk. We might start stealing to provide for our lifestyle. We might cheat or hurt our loved ones. The spirit that left, brings 7 more back with it. This will manifest in our lives, in many ways.
Normally, we quit using, or living a jacked up life, because God has woke us up in some way. He shows us we need to get straight. It could be any number of things. Maybe we have a close call. Maybe we hit rock bottom or hurt someone we love. Then, we realize we have a problem and need to quit what we are doing. This is God calling us to Himself. He wants us to be saved.
So, maybe we pray to receive Christ, or maybe we just decide to quit using and to change our lives. We feel good, about ourselves, and what is happening. We look good. We are eating right, and we are working or trying to work. Our families are happy with us, and people are noticing.
But if a few months later, we decide to have that drink, 7 demons come into us, and we are worse than we ever were. And when I say demons, I mean literal demons. You might have been a drunk before, but now you are even worse. You get in fights all the time. Steal booze, bum money, and have sex with anything that shakes a little. You can call it what you will, but I call it demons, because things happen outside of your body, which is not caused by you. Temptations, come that you have no control over. It has to be something else guiding it.
So, what’s the answer? The answer is to turn to God. And let Him make you free. He is the only answer. With God, ALL things are possible. Believe it. It doesn’t matter how many times, you fail. It doesn’t matter what your preacher says. Run to God and ask Him to save you. Confess Jesus as your Lord, and ask Him to heal you. Not, once, but every time, in every way. Keep turning to Him, every time, until it makes you sick, then keep turning to Him, cause He loves you, and He is working. You did not become a mess over night, and it will take time to get you totally out. Trust Him, He is working.
When you confess your sins to God, you will find yourself doing them less and less. As time goes on, you’ll find that you fail less and less, never give up. Ask God to forgive you, and keep living life. I have failed so many times, that I cannot understand why God, stays with me. But, He does. He keeps working, and blessing me. He keeps guiding me, and protecting me. I do not deserve it. That is His grace.
I am not saying life will be rosy. I had to go to prison to finally get broken of the demons that ruled my life. But, when I finally sat down and listened, God was able to work and speak to me. When you ask Him to save you, it happens instantly. But, then He works to remove things throughout our lives. Some go quicker than others. I have things I still struggle with. But, listen to God, and do the things He leads you to do. You will see miracles.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
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The scriptures teach that one day there will be a system ran by one person who controls all buying and selling.( Rev. 13:16-18)
That system is being built today.
It will be in place and ready to use when the Anti-Christ requires the Mark of the Beast on the hands or foreheads of all people.
That will be the last piece of the infrastructure.
It will connect the people’s physical bodies and minds to the system.
Go back to the days of Babel. (Gen. 11))
We see that “They”, began to build a tower which would reach heaven. The purpose was to unite humanity. “Lest we be scattered”
They were of “one language, and of one speech” which is like saying they said, the same things, in the same way.
Likewise today, a tower has been built to heaven called the internet. It will probably be totally satellite contained eventually. Elon Musk’s “Starlink” is the future.
This tower or internet, has united humanity, in essence. It has allowed the spread of commerce and certain ideas to brainwash the masses into saying the same things in the same ways.
People have connected virtually their entire lives to this tower. Social life, business, banking, buying and selling and shipping to our homes.
Well, now the task is to get people even more connected. Make it impossible to function In society and finance without being connected.
Use safety and fear of crime to force more and more integration. Make things easier and cheaper when connected.
Currently a new law or policy has been passed called “Know your Customer”
Websites are forcing advertisers to prove identity, in various ways. Some like Google and Pinterest are requiring a user to upload an ID. Others are making users verify with social security numbers and every other form of ID.
Of course, the claim is that it keeps us safe. It keeps the internet safe. But, it also works to control the population.
So what’s next? Well, the next step will be ALL people who use the internet, will be required to provide ID. Not just advertisers, or people who do business online, but everyone.
So basically, Amazon will probably eventually require you to upload an ID before allowing you to purchase from them.
I imagine that this will eventually cause the need for the creation of an internet ID.
Something that will be government backed and completely safe. You’ll probably upload all your info to a protected site, or go to the DMV, and give them everything they require. Then, this will create an ID that you can upload anywhere that asks or everywhere.
Now remember. By this time it will be virtually impossible to avoid having an online connection. Banking, insurance, virtually everything will be online and connected.
After this, the next logical step will be to connect your body to the system.
There will probably be some kind of scare campaign to get people to think their ID is stolen, or data breach or something. Then they will require some sort of connection. It could be a fingerprint, DNA SWAB, or retinal scan. Course, this could be part of the Internet ID.
Next, will most likely be the Mark. Something that literally attaches you to the “tower”, and proves who you are.
People have imagined being able to avoid the system. But, the fact that it is taking years to set it all up, means you’ll have to live totally off grid for a very long time before the final nail is driven. Of course, the final nail is to have something in your hand or forehead, connecting you to the system. You can reject this. But, you’ll probably already be connected and the temptation to get the Mark will be tremendous. We need to practice walking away from everything and trusting that God has got our back.
(I personally avoided being involved with modern commerce for years. I used cash and shopped locally. It works. But it became harder and harder. I became more connected over time. But, there are things I still refuse to do, or do very sparingly. Also, the winds seem to be leaning in a certain direction which could cause me to get more and more disconnected. Maybe it’s time. I just want to be able to continue to serve God here.)
When the time comes, we will not be able to bank or pay bills or get paid, or perhaps even shop.
For years possibly, before the final stroke of being required to get the Mark. Be ready to just walk away.
Notice that it all involves money, and remember we cannot serve two masters, mammon or God. Remember, the love of money is the root of all evil.
We will be required to choose our finances or God, when the Mark comes. Most people will have no idea that a choice is required. But, if God points it out to you, you might want to listen and just walk away. Let that old life die.
Look at the times of COVID. When people were forced to vaccinate or lose jobs. That was a test run.
When the time comes to get the Mark, we will be so integrated into the system, people will just accept. It will seem logical. Probably, there will be some moral or spiritual reason attached as well.
And do not think that there will be a pretrib rapture to save you. I personally do not believe in a pretrib rapture. I believe in the rapture when Christ returns, because that’s what the Bible teaches. But not a PRETRIB rapture. It will happen sometime later.
I am convinced, that when the time comes people will reject Christ and get the Mark to avoid starvation and persecution, because of the four horsemen and the 5th seal persecution. “He will make war with the saints and overcome them” will be great persecution. (Rev. 13:7, Daniel 7:21)
THAT will be the Great Falling Away. People who claim to know Christ will reject Him to avoid persecution and lose their finances. (2 Thess. 2:3)
Please do not wait till it’s too late to have faith in the Lord to carry you through. If the pretrib rapture does not occur, what will you do? Are all your eggs in that basket?
Will you have the oil of faith when He returns? (Matt. 25)
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
The saints will be overcome. The scriptures are clear that the Anti-Christ will make war with the saints and overcome them. (Dan. 7:25, Rev. 13:7) I want to point out how this is likely to occur and how it is already started. I am not giving a prophecy here. I’m just pointing out some things.…
What is the truth? I want to start with the ultimate truth, then talk about the current times, and prophecy. If you want to know God’s will on any subject you can probably find it in the Garden at Creation. There was no evil or death present. Nothing killed anything else. The humans and animals…
God is with us “Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.” –Luke 12:32 “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”— 2 Tim. 1:7 “So that we may boldly say, The Lord is…
“I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children…”
After the Fall of mankind in the Garden, God said this to Eve; the mother of all humanity.
And it has been taught that it is a curse upon her, and maybe it is. But, God’s curse is that she loves and cares.
She desires to love and care for that perfect man to be her husband, even though there is no perfection in this fallen world. And it hurts.
She conceives of a child, and she falls in love with it in the womb. She suffers terribly if that child goes to be with God too soon, but she knows in her heart that she will see that bundle again someday. And it hurts.
She births a child, and it hurts. The whole world can see it hurts, but that pain turns to joy when she sees the little baby born.
And she loves that child with so much love it hurts. She smiles, and prays for the child. And those prayers draw her closer to God.
But, that sorrow comes with the Love. She hurts when that baby hurts. She is worried for that child all the time. And it hurts. It is sorrow, because of Love.
And that child grows and the love for them grows, and hurts when that child suffers through the pains of this world.
Till one day, the child must leave and go to be an adult. And it hurts. That Love aches to see them go, but the joy is full, along with that sorrow, of what might happen.
And that Love and ache continues for life. and it hurts. It is love.
God turns a curse, into Love in the heart of a mom.
Praise God.
Happy Mother’s Day
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ His newest book is called “The Future is Coming” and is a collection of dystopian short stories.
It’s important to know. Death on its most basic level means separation. It is not an end, as some suppose. The Bible teaches that we are triune, like God. We are made in His image. We have a body, a soul and a spirit. When God created everything He created it good. Evil was contained…
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Always more. More, More, More. “Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.”— Heb.…
God has moved in my life many times. He has moved to bless me. He has moved to correct me. He has moved to save me, and He has moved to protect me. He has also moved in ways that I have not understood, and still don’t understand. He is God, and we can trust Him.
In my life God often moves because I ask Him. Just simply because I ask. He loves me.
Other times, it’s based upon faith. I trust Him, and step out, believing His Word.
But, other times, it’s based upon sincere brokenness.
I am done.
I am spent.
I can’t do it anymore.
I give myself totally to Him, and I’m willing to take whatever comes.
God knows our heart. He knows if we are being real with Him. He knows when we offer ourselves, unleavened, to Him. He knows.
In the early days of walking with God, I was not living a life I’m proud of. God was working on me, but I was far from where I am today. Not that I’m Mr. Perfect. But, I was pretty jacked up at the time.
Regardless of that fact, Jesus saved me, and was working on me. He was calling me to serve Him, and to draw closer and have a relationship with Him.
I didn’t know what to do, but I knew He was calling. Just like He is calling you.
So, I spoke to a pastor friend of mine and told him what I was feeling from God.
The pastor told me, to pray to the Lord, and imagine in my mind a contract. Just a blank contract. Then, to imagine signing it and giving it to God. Allowing God, the freedom to fill it out as He saw fit. So I did.
This was not my salvation, I was saved long before this. But I do believe this was the beginning of my ministry. The beginning of my service to Him. I became His servant.
After that prayer, great movement occurred in my life. Things started to change, and shift.
I do not want to go into details, but there is no doubt it was Him.
So, if you are saved and confused about what direction God has for you. Try praying this prayer.
Be real with God and surrender totally to whatever He might have.
But, understand that He might remove people from your life. He might do things to make you totally dependent upon Him. He might remove a job. Or give you a different job. He might take your home, and cause you to move. He might shake things so bad that people just abandon you. You might meet new people, or have your life rocked, in order to remove problems, or make you a better person.
When you give yourself totally to God, He must mold you. He must burn off the dross to purify the Gold. He must shake you to get rid of the chaff. He might break you to reshape you, and make you more useful for His kingdom.
It doesn’t have to be all bad. It can be full of joy as well, as you spend more time with Him. But, often we see changes as bad, even when they are not.
God has a purpose beyond our own purposes. He cares for us, but ultimately our eternal security, and blessings are far more important than our current life. Our kingdom work, and helping to save others is what matters most.
So, no matter how God moves. The final purpose is to draw us closer to Him. Every thing that happens, works together for our good. Because drawing closer to Him, and having that relationship is the best thing we can imagine.
God knows you. He loves you. He has what’s best for you. Trust Him.
Bio: Chris Bunton is a writer, poet and blogger from Southern Illinois. He has published in several magazines, and has written a poetry eBook called “Against the Man” and an Addiction Recovery eBook called “Made Free: Overcoming Addiction“ a collection of dystopian short stories.“The Future is Coming” and his latest book “The Latter Days‘ is a book on Bible Prophecy and avoiding the deceptions to come.
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